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	<title>Comments on: Control, plans and other wafflings</title>
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		<title>By: tina</title>
		<link>http://www.rflong.com/2010/02/04/control-plans-and-other-wafflings/comment-page-1/#comment-464</link>
		<dc:creator>tina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 01:25:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, you&#039;re right. Wouldn&#039;t it be nice now if you could flip a switch and stop worrying about everythying else;D.

Now, back to revisions; something I can actually control (more or less)...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, you&#8217;re right. Wouldn&#8217;t it be nice now if you could flip a switch and stop worrying about everythying else;D.</p>
<p>Now, back to revisions; something I can actually control (more or less)&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Pearce</title>
		<link>http://www.rflong.com/2010/02/04/control-plans-and-other-wafflings/comment-page-1/#comment-461</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate Pearce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 17:28:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup-all you can do is write the next book and try and get better and better. I&#039;ve given up trying to control anything else :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup-all you can do is write the next book and try and get better and better. I&#8217;ve given up trying to control anything else <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ms Menozzi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ms Menozzi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m still going to keep chanting, if only to keep the other voices in my head at bay. ;)

Seriously, this was a really good topic, and everyone covers it in their own unique way. Of course, you&#039;re right - the only thing we can really control, as writers,  is the writing. Sometimes we forget that part, and then the stress weasels its way into our heads and hearts and... 

Ugh.

I&#039;m working on a story right now, and this is a good reminder for me to have. No matter what, I can control how this tale develops, how realistic it is, and ultimately how good - no, GREAT it will be.

:) Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m still going to keep chanting, if only to keep the other voices in my head at bay. <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Seriously, this was a really good topic, and everyone covers it in their own unique way. Of course, you&#8217;re right &#8211; the only thing we can really control, as writers,  is the writing. Sometimes we forget that part, and then the stress weasels its way into our heads and hearts and&#8230; </p>
<p>Ugh.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m working on a story right now, and this is a good reminder for me to have. No matter what, I can control how this tale develops, how realistic it is, and ultimately how good &#8211; no, GREAT it will be.</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Ella Drake</title>
		<link>http://www.rflong.com/2010/02/04/control-plans-and-other-wafflings/comment-page-1/#comment-459</link>
		<dc:creator>Ella Drake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:50:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m bookmarking so I can come back and read often.
:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m bookmarking so I can come back and read often.<br />
 <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Terri-Lynne (bogwitch64)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Terri-Lynne (bogwitch64)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You mean...chanting in your head doesn&#039;t work?? I&#039;ve wasted YEARS of my life! Noooooooooooo!

:)

Nicely done, lady. You&#039;re absolutely right, of course.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You mean&#8230;chanting in your head doesn&#8217;t work?? I&#8217;ve wasted YEARS of my life! Noooooooooooo!</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Nicely done, lady. You&#8217;re absolutely right, of course.</p>
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		<title>By: Dayna/Rowan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dayna/Rowan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 13:09:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>d00d, I was with you. Then she said icing and I have no idea what I was going to say. 

Maybe we just need to blog cupcake photos. That&#039;d be good, right?



PS. Loving writing IS key. It&#039;s something I lost at some point last year, and it sucks all energy with it. Now, though...I&#039;m starting to remember why I love it. The neat twists and turns. And amazingly enough...none of the reasons I love writing are reasons in someone else&#039;s control. (Oh, sure, I love the feel of selling a book, but...that&#039;s not WRITING, that&#039;s business!)

oy. I could do a whole nother blog post here just agreeing with you. Where&#039;s that icing?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>d00d, I was with you. Then she said icing and I have no idea what I was going to say. </p>
<p>Maybe we just need to blog cupcake photos. That&#8217;d be good, right?</p>
<p>PS. Loving writing IS key. It&#8217;s something I lost at some point last year, and it sucks all energy with it. Now, though&#8230;I&#8217;m starting to remember why I love it. The neat twists and turns. And amazingly enough&#8230;none of the reasons I love writing are reasons in someone else&#8217;s control. (Oh, sure, I love the feel of selling a book, but&#8230;that&#8217;s not WRITING, that&#8217;s business!)</p>
<p>oy. I could do a whole nother blog post here just agreeing with you. Where&#8217;s that icing?</p>
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		<title>By: RFLong</title>
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		<dc:creator>RFLong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 12:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mmmm icing....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mmmm icing&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 12:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome post! You know I feel 100% the same way...(Well no I do, after yesterday&#039;s meltdown!) LOL

We need to remember that writing a good book is what it&#039;s all about. The rest is icing. Mmmm...icing.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome post! You know I feel 100% the same way&#8230;(Well no I do, after yesterday&#8217;s meltdown!) LOL</p>
<p>We need to remember that writing a good book is what it&#8217;s all about. The rest is icing. Mmmm&#8230;icing&#8230;..</p>
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