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		<title>By: RFLong</title>
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		<dc:creator>RFLong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 21:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great minds think alike! LOL! :)

It had not occured to me, but of course you are right. Very few HEAs in the Asian stories I know.

Funny, I mentioned King Arthur above and I&#039;m currently watching the 2004 King Arthur film (yes, yes I know but I like it), and they swing it to give Arthur a happy ending. Of course, Lancelot and Tristan end pretty miserably.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great minds think alike! LOL! <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It had not occured to me, but of course you are right. Very few HEAs in the Asian stories I know.</p>
<p>Funny, I mentioned King Arthur above and I&#8217;m currently watching the 2004 King Arthur film (yes, yes I know but I like it), and they swing it to give Arthur a happy ending. Of course, Lancelot and Tristan end pretty miserably.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeannie Lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeannie Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 20:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s quite interesting that you blogged about this. Just this morning I posted on mine about how Asian stories never have happy endings. It&#039;s as if in the Asian tradition, death and suffering make people examine the human condition more closely.

But happiness is a human condition too! Pain just digs deeper and people tend to hold onto it longer - in life and in prose. So a sad ending makes us feel that the characters are unsafe and we continue to worry about them. A happy ending gives us that momentary high, but then we move on. What a downright, dirty trick, plucking at our heart strings that way! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s quite interesting that you blogged about this. Just this morning I posted on mine about how Asian stories never have happy endings. It&#8217;s as if in the Asian tradition, death and suffering make people examine the human condition more closely.</p>
<p>But happiness is a human condition too! Pain just digs deeper and people tend to hold onto it longer &#8211; in life and in prose. So a sad ending makes us feel that the characters are unsafe and we continue to worry about them. A happy ending gives us that momentary high, but then we move on. What a downright, dirty trick, plucking at our heart strings that way! <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: RFLong</title>
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		<dc:creator>RFLong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 20:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On my livejournal, where this is cross-posted, one of my friends (the wonderful Brian Dolton) posted about a &quot;satisfying&quot; ending, rather than a necessarily &quot;happy&quot; ending, with examples from film such as Casablanca and Gone with the Wind. I think he makes a good point.

Don&#039;t get me wrong. I like a happy ending too. But I&#039;d like it to mean something and I find I tend to get more out of them if they are tinged by sorrow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On my livejournal, where this is cross-posted, one of my friends (the wonderful Brian Dolton) posted about a &#8220;satisfying&#8221; ending, rather than a necessarily &#8220;happy&#8221; ending, with examples from film such as Casablanca and Gone with the Wind. I think he makes a good point.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. I like a happy ending too. But I&#8217;d like it to mean something and I find I tend to get more out of them if they are tinged by sorrow.</p>
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		<title>By: Yvette Davis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yvette Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 19:54:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear R. F.,

I have also heard the unhappy ending decried by literary agents such as Donald Maas. In his book, Writing the Breakout Novel, he pretty much guarantees no book that isn&#039;t happy enough will ever be a bestseller.

But tragedy can be very moving. I for one could go for some tragic stories over the usual forced happy ending ones if you know what I mean.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear R. F.,</p>
<p>I have also heard the unhappy ending decried by literary agents such as Donald Maas. In his book, Writing the Breakout Novel, he pretty much guarantees no book that isn&#8217;t happy enough will ever be a bestseller.</p>
<p>But tragedy can be very moving. I for one could go for some tragic stories over the usual forced happy ending ones if you know what I mean.</p>
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		<title>By: Rob Charron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob Charron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 18:39:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi :)
Another terrific blog.
I admit I was shocked at the Game of Thrones books and that endeared them to me all the more. Same with Tad Williams Dragonbone series. And Kate Elliott&#039;s Prince of Dogs series. Each of which shocked/surprised me, and stuck with me. Sometimes a &quot;happy ending&quot; is just a cop-out and we, the readers, know it. Sometimes the hero or heroine doesn&#039;t live happily ever after (Frodo had to leave).
Still, it depends upon the book and what is true to that book.
:)
Thanks for sharing.
Love From Canada
xoxo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Another terrific blog.<br />
I admit I was shocked at the Game of Thrones books and that endeared them to me all the more. Same with Tad Williams Dragonbone series. And Kate Elliott&#8217;s Prince of Dogs series. Each of which shocked/surprised me, and stuck with me. Sometimes a &#8220;happy ending&#8221; is just a cop-out and we, the readers, know it. Sometimes the hero or heroine doesn&#8217;t live happily ever after (Frodo had to leave).<br />
Still, it depends upon the book and what is true to that book.<br />
 <img src='http://www.rflong.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Thanks for sharing.<br />
Love From Canada<br />
xoxo</p>
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